Notes to a friend

Dear Friend..

I felt your sadness now. All I can say is...."apa2 pun terjadi, kita masih ada Allah". Pls don't lost hope in everything. In future, you will see that all the things that happened to you today is only a part of the life's game. It makes you strong!!

I know you can get over this. Maybe I can't be there for you 24/7, but keep in mind, I always happy to lend you my ear to hear the story...For time being, pls be strong, even sometimes you weak and slipped, start again..My pray is always for u..amin

Facebook

I can't remember the exact date when I was involved in Facebook world. If I am not mistaken, it happened 3 years ago when my friends and me were getting bored in blogging. Since then, I met many friends especially from my old schools, university and working places. Facebook makes my life merrier. In there, we can talk anything, from personal to the general problems. Oh we can even make an event to invite people to our party without having us to spend money to send an invitation card.

As time goes by, Facebook takes it toll in many peoples life. Gossips,ruined friendship,insulting word, show off and the list goes on are part of the bad influenced of Facebook. As for me, I learned from past that, we have to be extra careful of what you published in your FB wall's. Too many people I have to consider. I have siblings and in-laws. One may said that it is your FB so it is your rights to publish whatever in our mind. If you feel annoyed and disturbed of what people said on their wall's, then feel free to either ignore them or remove it from your friend list. YES, I totally agreed with that opinion. Tepuk dada tanya Iman Najibah:)

I always complained to my spouse that some people should not said this and that in their wall's. His answer is always like this::::"apa kata duduk,study, siapkan Phd tu.."...hehehhehe

People are not perfect

I love to read about motivational subject no matter it comes from a books, journals, articles or blogs. By reading this, I know that we were not alone facing all problems in our daily life. There's somebody out there suffered the same problem with us, how they salvage the situation and willing to share it with us. There's one motivational blog which I frequently read whenever I take break when doing something. You can read her blog here.One of her entry was discussing about 'right a past wrong'. The content of her entry is really touch my heart and glued in my head.

Yes, we were human and not perfect. We did a wrong things and spoke a wrong words without we realized about other people feelings. Looking back to all those things, we feel regret and try to fix it. But we have to accept that there are things that we cannot fixed, or to the other party,they still remember our wrongdoings and yet, they can't forgive. Surely, we felt upset, but pls, cheer up, at least we did a right action by fixing our past wrong, right?

This is what happened to me and I am pretty sure it also happened to everyone. I had a friend.Our friendship were going smoothly at first, but in the middle, we barely talk to each other. I cant remember what was our misunderstanding on that time, but last few years, we started keep in-touch to each other. I felt happy about that but as times passed by,she wasn't interested in restoring our friendship and now, we stop communicating ,only FB that shows her in a good place and that's enough for me. May she leads a happy life, Insyaallah.

Ismail Mohd Juffri

Selamat Berjuang Ismail....semoga Allah berkatimu..amin

Mail yg kiri skali dan yg plg tinggi..hehehe

Ismail is one of my nephews. We were born on the same date. Last week my family sent him to airport for he will further study oversea.

Now he already in Universiti Al-Azhar,really Ismail..I am proud of you!!

Workstation and forgiveness

I really have a problem with study especially when it needs me to focus and concentrate. The table was too small, aircond was breakdown,the room are hot,uncomfortable and the list goes on, were the lame reason that I always gave to my husband every time he asked me what have I done in faculty on that day. So,last Wednesday we went to the furniture showroom to buy a set of office table with an ergonomic chair, which will come today due to the last stock. Hopefully with this new workstation, it will boost my inner spirit to work more.InsyaAllah.


Oh by the way,this morning when I woke up from sleep, I saw a talk show in TV, about how you should respect your husband.
Siti Fatimah, puteri Rasulullah pernah bergurau, sampai membuatkan suaminya berkecil hati. Menyedari kesilapannya itu, Siti Fatimah telah meminta maaf kepada suaminya sampailah kali 70 barulah suaminya tersenyum. Siti Fatimah pon mengadukan hal ini kepada Rasullullah, lantas Rasulullah berkata: Wahai Siti Fatimah, andainya tadi kau mati dgn keadaan suamimu tidak memaafkan kau, demi Allah aku tak akan menyembahyangkan jenazahmu.

When I heard this,I felt like I want to cry, because yesterday I had a 'perang dingin' with husband. This morning before he left to work, I said "N, pls forgive me"....

Ramadhan Kareem

I have nothing to write,except I want to wish all my friends Selamat Berpuasa..Semoga Allah menerima amalanmu dan amalanku.Amin..

AAAHHH..TAKUT

I AM NERVOUS!!!

• I HAVE TO PRESENT MY RESEARCH IN FRONT OF MY COLLEAGUE TOMORROW
  
• I HAVE NO PROGRESS..AFTER TWO YEARS?????
• HOW SHOULD I DRESS?
  
• WHERE DO I BEGIN MY SPEAK?
  
• WHAT SHOULD I SAY?
• WHAT IF THEY ASK ME A QUESTIONS? I HAVE NO ANSWER